# Emotional Health

Posts

Then and Now: What I Learned by Reading My Journal from 7 Years Ago

Jan 29, 2026

A seven-year-old journal entry becomes a time machine—revealing how ambition softened into presence, and what it really means to live intentionally.

How a Simple Bird Feeder Changed How I See the World

Jan 28, 2026

A quiet reflection on how a backyard bird feeder changed the way I notice the world — and why paying attention might be one of the most underrated mental health practices we have.

Put Down the Phone: Why Being Present Matters More Than Recording

Jan 1, 2026

Why do we film life instead of living it? A New Year’s reflection on presence, phones, and letting moments be enough.

Hope at the Turn of the Year

Dec 31, 2025

A quiet winter reflection on progress, family, and hope—written at the turn of the year.

New Mantra: It’ll Be All Right

Nov 7, 2025

While listening to music and thinking through a problem, a quiet phrase came to me: “It’ll be all right. You’re gonna be all right.” A new mantra, born from stillness.

Grace Under Fire: What My Son Taught Me About Composure

Nov 5, 2025

When my 12-year-old son faced heckling parents while umpiring a Little League game, he showed me that real composure isn’t about control—it’s about grace, even when others lose theirs.

What Makes a Friend — The Quiet Strength of Real Connection

Oct 31, 2025

As we get older, friendship looks different. The best ones don’t need constant contact — they bring quiet peace, honesty, and steadiness through life’s chaos. This reflection explores what real connection means and why the friends who truly see you are worth holding onto.

Pressing the Reset Button — Finding Stillness in the Woods

Oct 16, 2025

Woke up uninspired. Found peace in the woods instead.

The Pull of the Dark: A Chautauqua on Keeping the Fire Alive

Oct 5, 2025

There’s a quiet pull in life that draws us inward—a kind of darkness that waits for everyone. This is about learning to tend your own fire, to keep showing up, and to find warmth even in the coldest places.

Walking Into Someone’s Shadow — When Other People’s Darkness Lingers

Oct 4, 2025

A strange encounter at a football game becomes a reflection on empathy, boundaries, and how to release the dark energy we sometimes absorb from others.

The Quiet Hours: Finding Solitude in Gym, Woods, and Music

Sep 19, 2025

The quiet hours come in many forms — an empty gym on a rainy day, a path through the woods, or the glow of vinyl spinning late at night. Each reminds me that solitude is its own kind of luxury.

Rising Sun: A True Name for My Son

Sep 10, 2025

Parenting a pre-teen sometimes feels like watching an eclipse—the light dims, conversation shrinks, and frustration flares. I’ve found myself losing my temper, but also found a way back: giving my son a true name—Rising Sun—to remind me who he is and who he’s becoming. This post is about discipline, anger, and learning not to dim his light.